Valentine's Day, Library-Style
The traditions of gifting your loved one (perhaps including yourself!) with small tokens of affection, such as hand-made cards, chocolates/sweets, perfumes and other scented body products, lingerie, flowers, and jewelry, have been around for centuries. But did you know that different times, places and cultures have commemorated Valentine’s Day in other ways?
Nineteenth century flower dictionaries categorized and gave meanings to every flower. Roses didn’t bloom in February; only the wealthiest had conservatories that allowed them to grow flowers all year long. Instead, Valentine hopefuls sent more common flowers like yellow acacia (meaning concealed love), jonquils (meaning a desire for returned affection) and snowdrops (meaning hope), to convey the message that they secretly adored the recipient and hoped those feelings might be reciprocated. It wasn’t until the 20th century when there were more commercial florists and therefore more availability of flowers at affordable price points, that there was a shift to roses (whose colors had meanings of love, devotion, passion and more) as the Valentine’s Day flower of choice.
In Germany, pigs, a German symbol of luck, are incorporated in to Valentine’s gifts. Germans also gift large heart-shaped gingerbread cookies, which include personal messages, to their sweethearts. In the Philippines, the government performs mass marriages on Valentine’s Day, to help couples that can’t afford their own weddings. Japanese women traditionally offer Valentine’s chocolates to men to confess their romantic feelings on February 14th, with Japanese men reciprocating with gifts exactly one month later on March 14th, known as White Day. Valentine’s Day can even celebrate more than just romantic love. Several countries in Latin America, as well as Estonia and Finland, celebrate platonic love between friends.
However the holiday is celebrated, if you’re craving romance this February, Neill Public Library can help you with ideas for celebrating this romantic holiday!
If you can’t get reservations at your favorite restaurant on Valentine’s Day, why not dine at home? Cookbooks such as Dinner Just for Two, by Christina Lane, or Dishes for Two: 100 Easy Small Batch Recipes for Weeknight Meals & Special Celebrations will help you create a delicious home cooked meal for you and your loved ones!
Want to make a homemade card or gift for a special someone? Check out The Complete Photo Guide to Cardmaking by Judi Watanabe, Martha Stewart’s Encyclopedia of Crafts: An A-Z Guide with Detailed instructions and Endless Inspiration by Martha Stewart, or Making Scented Soap: 60 Fragrant Soaps and Bath Bombes to Make at Home by Linda Hamblen.
And of course, there are books you can share together! My husband loves to listen to me read, and some of our favorites include The Complete Poems and Songs of Robert Burns, by Robert Burns, or romance novels like The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood, The Duchess Deal by Tessa Dare, or The Pilot and the Puck-Up by Pippa Grant. Whatever it is you’re looking for during this romantic season, there’s a book for you and your Valentine on our shelves.
Lori Lewis is the Administrative Assistant at Neill Public Library